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Gravitate Toward Gratitude

By Jessica Speas posted 11-08-2021 10:14

  

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I recently read an Instagram post asking viewers to name the most significant problem in veterinary medicine. I couldn’t help but wonder, what if the post had instead asked what we are all most grateful for in veterinary medicine? What impact might it have had to encourage people to focus on the positives given the stressful times we currently live in.

For several years we have promoted gratitude as a core value at my practice. In November 2020, in the face of the pandemic, we needed extra help to focus on the positives. We purchased a cardboard cutout tree and leaves from a teacher supply store. We “planted” the Gratitude Tree on a wall and provided empty leaves and markers to the team. By the end of the month, that tree had a full canopy of gratitude leaves, each bearing something that someone in our practice was grateful for. A simple idea and a few bucks had made thoughts and feelings visible, and it was nice for all of us to see for ourselves that we were still finding a lot of light during a pretty dark time.

Focusing on the negative is so easy, whether or not Instagram is asking us to. But gratitude can go viral, too, especially among people like us, who already have a solid social network, both on and offline. It not only feels good when people share something that they are grateful for, but it can also remind you of what you are thankful for. So in that spirit and in no particular order, here’s what I am grateful for:

  • Veterinary medicine has provided us with relatively stable careers throughout the pandemic. People need and value us.
  • We are doing something that, for so many people, is a passion and a calling. It is incredibly rewarding to help families and their pets!
  • We as managers are in a position to decide how to fix things that shape how our practice operates and impacts our team members – that’s very empowering.
  • I am healthy, and my family is healthy.

The truth is, problems demand our attention, and positive thinking won’t make them go away. But reminding ourselves of all the good people and things surrounding us and the power we have to deal with things that aren’t so good puts problems and challenges in perspective. 

Please share the things you are grateful for in the comments – thanks in advance for the boost of serotonin!

Gratefully yours,
Jessica Speas, CVPM, SPHR, PHR-ca, SHRM-SCP, CCFP
VHMA President


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12-16-2021 12:54

Great insight Jessica.  I appreciate your reminder to give focus to the things we can be thankful for and the positive contributions we have made (and have been given).  I think your message comes in perfect timing as hospitals are focusing on retention and culture.  I, too, will now share what I am grateful for. 
  • Having the need in our community and our ability to serve - strengthening the bond of owner and their companions
  • To have a supportive family (and extended family which includes my co-workers and industry peers) that enable me to do what I love
  • My running club & book club as they remind me that it's also important to have good physical and mental health

12-03-2021 14:14

I'm great for a network that already "gets it" so I don't have to enumerate all the heavy stuff, because they already know, and are right there with me. Not having to explain, just being accepted is a huge gift. <3 Thank you for the reminder.

12-01-2021 10:29

Thank you Jessica! I am grateful for a VHMA President that reminds us of the positive. I am thankful for my time of colleagues that support, encourage, and love on each other in times of need. I appreciate my family for allowing me to sometimes work more than I should knowing my passion for the profession helps others in their time of need. #Grateful #Blessed #CVPMsuperPower​​​​

11-30-2021 16:42

I am very thankful for the people in the VHMA, especially those I have met at conferences. I have learned and grown so much as a manager and person as a result.

11-30-2021 15:26

Awesome blog! I know how hard it is to thing positive when so much negativity is all around us but take a step back and close your eyes, slowly count your fingers and your toes, thinking about each one, and be grateful that you have them. Take a deep breath and smile. Gratitude for the little things make a huge difference.

11-30-2021 15:22

Great reminder to look at things in a more refreshing and positive way!
I am grateful for all of the amazing connections I have made through VHMA membership.  I have not encountered another organization that allows one to be so personally connected with some of the most dynamic and brilliant industry professionals. #vhmalife #whyivhma #gratitude  ​​​​